How to succeed after serving

Whilst the army has improved their resettlement procedures over the years, leaving the army is a massive step to take and many ex-squaddies struggle to adapt to life on the outside. Here’s a brief look at how a soldier can transition to normal life and be a success.

I left the British Army 5 years ago and there have been many highs and lows. I had about 25 different jobs and quickly fell into debt after making silly choices. I have sorted my life out now and I am very happy so I thought I would write some advice, with a little insight from my own experiences, for any of the guys or girls that were in the process of leaving or have recently left the forces.

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  1. Get a job

So you joined the army at 16, went through training and got to your infantry unit. In between tours of Afghan you got rather drunk every weekend and generally had a very good time. Well that’s kind of how it went for me, but that doesn’t really make for good reading on a CV. I wanted to go into an office job and the first thing I needed was to create a good CV. I didn’t really have great grades or qualifications to speak of, so I created a CV that was based around work ethic, teamwork, reliability and discipline. These are traits that are automatically associated with the army and emphasizing these on your CV will stand you in better stead when an employer reviews CV’s.

Try using the following power words:

  • Proven track record of navigating difficult scenarios and situations
  • Ability to assimilate large amounts of information and make quick, informed decisions
  • Disciplined, ambitious and target driven

For interview tips you can read my post: How to nail a job interview

You have an entire year to learn a new trade and prepare yourself for the outside world. During that year, you should decide on a career path and learn as much as you can whilst saving as much money as physically possible; I just got drunk and thought that everything would work itself out. It did, but it took some real tough times to get there.

Great links to apply for jobs:

https://www.civvystreet.org/en…/employment

https://www.demobjob.co.uk/

http://www.forcesrecruitment.co.uk/

http://www.totaljobs.com

http://www.monster.co.uk

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  1. Save money

The army does not teach you how to look after money. In the army, you can spend your entire month’s wages on payday-weekend and it doesn’t really matter, because you still have a roof over your head and 3 meals a day. I really struggled in this department and made some stupid decisions because, simply because I was totally inexperienced with saving, paying bills and budgeting.

Don’t end up like Ian Beale:

 

  • Don’t get payday loans – they may sound reasonable but they really screw you up in the end.
  • Look at how much money you will take home from you job and budget for what you will need.
  • Start saving money – you never know what is around the corner.

 

Top Tip: Check http://www.moneysavingexpert.com/

 

  1. Nights out

The simple thing to remember here is that the rules are different in Civvy Street. Screaming ‘naked bar’ and ripping all your clothes off in the middle of a pub is likely to get you thrown out or worse. Don’t get so wasted that you are a danger to others and yourself; your civvy mates are more likely to leave you than carry you home. Shaving your mates eyebrows off on a regular basis after they fall asleep is going to get you in trouble and you will lose friends very quickly. Go to the pub, enjoy yourself and tell the lads your war stories, but don’t be an arse and annoy people. You basically have to come down a few notches in craziness.

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  1. Language

Very few civvies know what buck-she means. The lingo you use will change over time and you should start to talk a little more appropriately. You can’t call someone a c*** or a f****** w***** during a meeting, even if you mean it in a really nice way. Similarly, leave the Brecon point in Brecon.

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  1. The lads, the banter, the memories

Things change when you leave the forces and it takes an adaptable individual to be a success on the outside. Remember your manners; you don’t have to eat at 100mph anymore and bringing your corned-beef-hash ration pack on a night out will get you more than a few funny looks. You will certainly miss the boys you served with and you should always try your best to keep in touch, even though they might be spread around the world. I regret losing touch with many of my former army mates, but when I do see them again, it’s like nothing changed.

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Whilst it sounds like you can’t have any fun on Civvy Street, you can still enjoy yourself in a responsible way. It is sometimes the simple things that make you incredibly happy; I remember the first time I could book my own holiday and it was a great feeling. Whilst you might miss the boys and the banter, you now have the freedom to do what you want and go where you want. I moved to Prague in the Czech Republic after a few years of getting out and I have not looked back since then.

Because you have served in the British forces, you should have the skills, discipline and work ethic to be a success on the outside. It won’t be easy, that I can guarantee, and it will be a shock to the system but things will get better.

And if you really miss the military, there is always the TA.

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Had your own experiences when leaving the forces?

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6 thoughts on “How to succeed after serving

  1. Excellent advice, as an ex Infantryman myself. I can relate to everything, getting the CV right first time every time. I am now an employer, I receive many CV ‘Books’ I don’t have time to read them, they are binned. I expect the relevant bullet points as per the job description, leavy the best bits for interview, and don’t ever say to the interviewer, when he/she asks “Where do you see yourself in 5 years time?” Sat in your chair is not a reply I am after, that’s my job 😉

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  2. This is great advice and should be compulsory reading on everyone’s ressetlement course! I left the Scots Guards Band after 24 years service. Unlike most of the army we got to play hard (no pun intended) whilst working as well as during time off! Civvy street is tough but immensely rewarding and liberating as well.

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  3. This is so right I was lucky enough to leave army 10 years ago and walk into a job and still be here now on great pay I was a lucky one but I miss the lads and the banter and I do feel that civvys take life too serious and worry too much when I was in the army I worried that if my rifle was clean out here it’s more worry about somebody stabbing you in your back I have a great family and friends around me so I have them to thank for keeping me from snapping somebody out here 😂😂 apart from that civvi street has its ups and down so does the army but the one thing I would point out is have a plan when leaving don’t leave and plan plan then leave Wayne Cyprien 1 pwo Yorkshire

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  4. Yes, I joined as a 15 year old Junior Leader and left 31 years later. Leaving was very hard at first. I had no idea how to make a living on the outside. Remember your strengths such as knowing how to look smart, turn up on time, being able to think for yourself and how to follow directions (orders!), and how to use initiative. Just don’t expect to find many of these features in your new workmates. Managers appreciate the work ethic and reliability of ex-service people. I echo the advice on not taking out payday loans. Instead, try to live on less than 90% of what you earn. A friend of mine made millions by first cleaning out toilets for barbers / hairdressing salons and then eventually making that into a multiple million industrial cleaning service. There is alway something, no matter what your skills. As for CV/resume, when I owned a company, I always hated jargon like ‘goal oriented’. I would have preferred something in English like, ‘I can get things done’, but that’s just me. What I learned in the army has taken me all around the world. Your experience may be different, but never, ever give up.

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  5. One thing I would stress is qualifications, when I was looking just after leaving I was told repeatedly that they did not need security guards.

    I tried unemployment and wirking in factories and then went to university and eventually landed a role with a bank. They were quite frank that they liked the military service but only coupled with university

    University’s are quite flexible about admissions (not Oxford or Cambridge) and will take your military service into account. You won’t get access to courses that require high level mathematics or the like but business studies and the like are up for grabs. I did computing so there are good courses available to explore military without A levels

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